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4. Acceptance and Accommodation



Kṣāntiḥ

Row Row Row your boat 

Gently up the stream 

Accept and accommodate

Everything without a scream 


Some may call it endurance

Some may say it forbearance 

They have negative connotation

Better translation is accommodation 


Every relationship needs that 

Every encounter need not be fought

Accept the blazing hot sun

Accept the buzzing honey bee


Respond to the person 

Don't react to the action

Deliberately change the attitude

Avoid mechanical reaction


Ahiṃsā and kṣāntiḥ are the values

One must try to have as basics

One may not yet have the wisdom

But must have these two in the system


Wrong actions are born of inner conflict

Accept and accommodate without afflict

This expands one's heart to be commodious

Life in harmony is now melodious


Inspiration - The Value of Values book- Swami Dayananda Saraswati 


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